Wednesday, July 29, 2009

On Being Home

So good to be home.

Although, I really enjoyed D.C., it's nice to be home.

I like the fact that when I walk outside, it takes me double the time it should take to walk to a friend's house, since neighbors stop to talk. I like the fact that I can hang out with my family. I like the fact that the fridge is stocked with nectarines and plums. I like the fact that I can be myself here. I like the fact that it's not 90 degrees, humid, and/or thunderstorming. I like the fact that there are no guys. (I may regret that last one.) I like the fact that I saw my high school friends for the first time since our reunion in Israel almost two years ago. I like the fact that I have an endless supply of library books. I like the fact that I don't have to get up before seven in the morning for work. I like the fact that people here don't know what "the Hill" is nor do they realize that interning on said hill is the most menial job one can have (although I am quick to clarify that my job was not glamorous). I like the fact that my house doesn't smell like mold and that there's adequate overhead lighting. I like the fact that I have a car.

Saturday, July 25, 2009

Shavua Tov

On Friday, my last day of work, the congressman took all of us interns out to lunch in the Members' Dining Room in the Capitol. (I brought along my own lunch, which wasn't too awkward.) Anyway, it was a pretty cool experience. Nancy Pelosi was there eating lunch with her family, just a few tables a way. After lunch, we left the Capitol through the front steps, which are closed off to the public. There was a tour group from the district waiting to see the congressman, and they all started cheering when we came out. I have to say that I felt a little celebrity-esque, and it felt good. Before I left, the office gave me a going-away gift--a leather-bound memo pad, embossed with the emblem of the House of Representative--which was really sweet.

In other news, it's raining men. I'm so sick of guys.

Although I've had a really great summer here in D.C., I'm really ready to go home. Ready to chill with the fam, sleep, get some pre-semester work done, and go someplace tropical. Yay!

Monday, July 20, 2009

Summer in DC

So I've avoided posting about my summer. Even now, I'm thinking that I should go wash dishes rather than post, but this is a summer that I'd like to remember, so I better just post already.

Since lists are easier to write than prose...

My summer (up until now):
1. LSAT--logic games were a killer, but I chilled out the day of the test. During the four months before the test, I stressed, and then the day of, I felt so relaxed. Thank G-d, that relaxed feeling has stuck with me, and I'm hoping to remain chilled about the whole ordeal.
2. Started working on the Hill. I'm working in a Congressman-Who-Shall-Not-Be-Named's office. It's been a cool experience. Lots of IQ (data entry), lots of letter writing, a little bit of research, some hearings and briefings, a considerable amount of time spent with the congressman's daughter. The last thing is the reason that I got to attend a members-only hearing with Captain Sullenberger (of the US Airways flight that landed on the Hudson); when the Legislative Director got kicked out, I got to stay, since I'm a "friend" of the congressman's daughter.
3. Congressional baseball game--Democrats whipped the Republicans for the first time in over a decade. Saw Nancy Pelosi up close. Sat with Team Intern from the office plus some people from my program.
4. Shabbos in Baltimore--great to spend time with F.
5. Shabbos in Georgetown--a chavayah. I would say "enough said," but I feel like I should elaborate, because that Shabbos may have been quite seminal for me. Friday night, I learned that frum guys drink. A lot. They may look yeshivish, they may not look yeshivish, but either way they drink. It was good to learn this, because now I'm not as naive. My standards aren't lower now (I hope), but I'm enlightened.
6. I can't remember what I've done this summer. Oy. A couple of weeks ago, I decided that it was about time I started documenting this experience, but I left off in the middle. I'll just paste in what I started then, and we'll call it even.

***

Alright, I need to post.

I've been putting off documenting my summer, but I think that it's about time I just do it already. That's how blogging works for me: I have a nagging feeling that I should journal, and then finally I feel ready.

So I'm interning in Washington, D.C., for a congressman who shall remain nameless. I'm officially not allowed to write about my experiences in the office under penalty of losing my (unpaid) job. Despite the fact that being an intern is in many ways the equivalent of being a slave, I'm really enjoying the experience. Although the job is, in many ways, quite menial (recording faxes, sorting mail, transferring phone calls), it's also very interesting. I get to attend hearings and briefings, give tours of the Capitol, and babysit the congressman's 16 year-old daughter (we visit Smithsonians together during work hours). I write memos, letters to constituents, and Dear Colleagues. As cliched as it may sound, I'm getting to see Washington "from an insider's perspective," and it's pretty cool.

One of the things that annoys me about politics is how deceptive people are. For instance, every phone call, fax, email, and letter that my office receives gets a written reply. The legislative correspondent and interns are the ones who write the replies, and, no, the congressman never sees any constituent correspondence. When we write back to constituents, we try to be as supportive of their opinion as possible while never agreeing to take action in support of that view. Basically, we tell people what they want to hear without actually doing anything to further their particular interest. We never take a strong stance against anything, which really runs contrary to the whole "stand up for what you believe in" line that we've all been fed. chilled out to the point

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Yeah, that's how I left it off--with an uncapitalized fragment.

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Shepping Nachas

My little bro., Pin, is in camp, and I just saw pictures of him during krias ha'Torah on shivah asar b'Tamuz, which is his birthday. He looks so happy and proud.

Almost cried.

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

This One's for You, D

One of my very close friends and I have only argued with each other twice.  One of those times was tonight.  The last time we argued was exactly a year ago, and we argued about the same thing both times. 

I've always had trouble admitting being wrong, apologizing, and ending a fight.  Tonight, I got up and hugged my friend.  Being the bigger person feels good, but it feels even better to reconcile with someone you care about.

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

Thinking Aloud

I recently felt self-conscious about myself due to an interest in impressing another person.  When I realized this change, I wondered whether I'm growing up (becoming normal) or regressing.  Then, I thought that maybe I just haven't been honest enough with myself in the past to acknowledge that I have felt this way (many times) before.  

Sunday, May 3, 2009

Crazy?

Staying in Brookdale.  

Yeah, I couldn't believe it myself, but I realized that I love my friends too much to get a single.

Sunday, April 26, 2009

Mission Accomplished

It's Motzai Shabbos, and the enormous shabbaton I ran this weekend is over.  Baruch Hashem, everything went smoothly, which is all that I could have hoped for.  

Two years ago, I would never have imagined myself capable of this sort of organization, leadership, and public speaking.  It's nice to look back and see how far I've come.  Looking forward to more growth, G-d willing.

Now I can write papers and pretend to study for the LSAT--in desperate need of siyata diShmaya.

Monday, April 13, 2009

Professional Procrastination

1.  Check NYtimes.com.
2.  Read some blogs.
3.  Talk to your roommates.
4.  Make a collage.
5.  Call home.
6.  Make a new iTunes playlist.
7.  Read a 700 page book.
8.  Stock up on DDP.
9.  Knit a sweater.
10.  Organize a shabbaton.
11.  Look at old photos.
12.  Watch The Office.
13.  Apply for summer jobs.
14.  Try on outfits.
15.  Straighten your hair.
16.  Call high school friends.
17.  Go on a walk.
18.  Sit in the caf for a couple of hours.
19.  Watch Backstreet Boys music videos on YouTube (and then deny doing so).
20.  Learn Shmiras HaLashon.
21.  Reminisce about the good old days in Dira 21.

Get some work done, and go to sleep at 4:30 A.M.

Sunday, April 5, 2009

Irony

I need some caffeinated Diet Dr. Pepper.  

In school, I craved decaf, and now that I have it, I really need caffeine.

I feel a withdrawal headache coming on...

These are a Few of My Least Favorite Things

1.  United Airlines.
2.  Deadlines.
3.  Getting asked out by someone that I see all the time.  
4.  Making housing plans for next year.  
5.  Receiving five phone calls a day from the same person who just wants to say hi.
6.  Being woken up.
7.  Shots.  I'm needle-phobic.
8.  Packing and un-packing.  And packing again.  
9.  Doing laundry in Israel.  Seriously unpleasant.  
10.  Egg salad--I've never tasted it, but it looks horrible.  Same's true of chopped liver.  And I can't bring myself to eat gefilte fish on days other than Shabbos and Yom Tov.

Stehekin, Washington

Ever feel like your life's a soap opera?

Sunday, March 15, 2009

Lists are Easier to Write Than Prose

These are a Few of My Favorite Things
with apologies to The Sound of Music

1. The smell of winter.
2.  Being asked what I want for my birthday and realizing that I have everything I need. 
3.  Having a loose tooth.  Haven't had one in a while, though.
4.  Arriving in a new place and not knowing my way around and then figuring it out and then being comfortable.  It's the feeling of discovery.
5.  Getting a higher score on an LSAT practice test.
6.  Coming home for the first time in a couple of weeks.
7.  The smell in the Brookdale elevators.  It's not a particularly amazing smell, but I feel like a freshman every time I smell it.
8.  The Museum of Arts and Design.  I just found MAD, and it's really cool.  In just an hour, you can visit all six floors of the museum's galleries.  Thursday nights are free.  It's located at Columbus Circle.
9.  Doing logic homework.  I'm not very good at it, but it's really fun.  
10.  My family.  Spending Shabbos with friends' families helps me realize how wonderful my family is and how non-dysfunctional we actually are. 

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Bad Habits

I have lots of bad habits, but one of my very worst may be staying up all night reading.  Last Thursday night, I indulged in this particular weakness of mine while reading Chaim Grade's masterpiece, The Yeshiva.  The book is a 700-odd page autobiographical account of the author's years in the Novardok yeshiva.  

There is so much to love about The Yeshiva.  For one, Grade's descriptions of pre-war Vilna.  He transports you back to a time that feels not much unlike our own.  The characters have problems very much the same as ours, and the community grapples with issues that we still deal with today, i.e. learning secular subjects and to what extent.   

Unique to that time, though, was the popularity and prevalence of the Novardok brand of mussar.  Grade illustrates life in Novardok, leaving the reader to come to his or her own conclusions.   Even more interesting to me, though, is Chaikl's, Grade's younger self, relationship with the Chazon Ish.  In his late teens and early twenties, Grade was a close student of the Chazon Ish.  His description of the Chazon Ish's middos and bein adam l'chaveiro is awe-inspiring.  Whether or not one identifies with the Chareidi legacy of the Chazon Ish, one can appreciate his humanity and character.

This book was definitely worth my 5 A.M. bedtime.